By Erin Tucker

Unsurprisingly, most people assume that the most dangerous American holiday to be on the road driving is New Year’s Eve.

Actually it’s the Fourth of July.

​Surprised? We were, too.

But it's true; our national birthday is the day of the year with the highest number of traffic fatalities . . . so be careful out there the next few days. We're always here to help if you need us. 

By Rob Tucker

​In both my April and May posts (And the Winners Are . . . ) (And the Winner Is . . . ) I mentioned how difficult it is each year to select one winner out of four East High finalists to be the recipient of an $8000 college scholarship. 

I have been interviewing at East on behalf of the Rotary Club of Des Moines for at least nine years. As rewarding as it is to be the means of helping a deserving student afford to attend college, it hasn’t gotten any easier to disappoint three out of four we interview.

As an antidote, earlier this year fellow East High interview team member, Kelly Sargent proposed to the RCDM board that the scholarship budget be increased enough to allow us to give $100 Target gift cards to three runners-up at each of the six Des Moines schools we support. Of course it doesn’t compare to receiving an $8000 scholarship, but it acknowledges at least in a small way the deservedness of the finalists, and as a practical matter, it’s something they can use to purchase items they'l need to begin life as college students. 

The board approved the addition, but since the annual budget had already been set, the new policy won’t go into effect until next year. My interview team, Kelly, Mark Lyons, new East High member Jim Vickery and I, didn't want to wait so we chipped in to buy our three runners-up their $100 gift cards.

Here’s the thank you letter we received from Jada Powell, one of our East High runners-up.

Dear Rotary Club,

I appreciate the opportunity you’ve provided for me throughout this scholarship process. I completely understand how hard selecting the applicants could have been, and feel blessed for making it as far as I did. You win some and lose some!

Thank you for my Target gift card; it is more than appreciated and has already helped me get a jumpstart on supplies for my apartment. Since we met, I have signed my letter of intent to DMACC, and I’ve been eagerly preparing to graduate. Thank you.

By Rob Tucker

Last month I wrote about feeling privileged to be a member of the team that chooses the Rotary Club of Moines (RCDM) scholarship winner from East High School. (And the Winner Is . . . )  

Every year RCDM awards an $8000 scholarship to a student from each of Des Moines' six high schools, so there are six separate interview teams. After the selections are made, the scholarship committee meets as a whole to ratify the list of winners, and the awards are presented a few weeks later at a luncheon honoring the winners and their families, counselors and school officials. 

I couldn't help but be impresses by this year's awardees, both individually and as a group. Check them out.

The winner from East High, Jasmine Johnson, is one of seven children. Because her father was abusive, he couldn't remain part of the family, so Jasmine was raised by a single, working mother who nevertheless taught Jasmine to read by the time she was three. Despite working 24 to 30 hours a week at HyVee and volunteering more than 200 hours, Jasmine managed to earn good grades and academic honors. She plans to attend Iowa State University and major in psychology to prepare for a career as social worker or mental health counselor. 

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​Tam Cao is the scholarship recipient chosen from Hoover's applicants. In addition to her academic achievements which include making the honor roll and becoming a National Honor Society member, Tam has been active in cheerleading, tennis, choir, the Viet Eucharistic Youth group and her church, and she mentors ESL students. Tam's goal is to become a dentist and will attend Grandview as a pre-dentistry student.

The Lincoln High winner is Blessing Hutchinson. The interview team described her as a wonderfully, positive person who lives up to her name. Blessing was a member of the Lincoln track team and well as active in Upward Bound, church and multi-cultural dance. She has been accepted at Drake University where she will pursue of a bachelor's degree followed by a master's in school counseling.  She said, “Sometimes all you need is someone in your corner.”
 
Raymond Abwe was selected from eight applicants at North High. The interview team said they were strongly affected by the “incredible” personal essay written by a young man who knew no English less than three years ago. Raymond was born in Tanzania to a family that had fled from the Congo and came to the U.S. as refugees. Raymond helped found and is active in a church for Congolese in Des Moines. He plans to study accounting at Grandview in order to teach badly needed financial literacy to the Des Moines Congolese community. 

The Roosevelt winner is Oanh Bui. Oanh, whose parents are from Vietnam, has a 3.82 grade point and has already earned 22 college credits through her AP work. Oahn said in their seven-person household, commitment to education and hard work are expected. She has been active in student government, the Rider Crew, Christ the King Church, and she plays the piano. She is also a graphic artist who started her own design business as a high school sophomore. Oanh is enrolled in Iowa State University's College of Design.
 
Scavo's winner, Nou Vue, is a first-generation Thai-American and a single mom who works full time to support her grandmother and her two two-year-old daughter. After leaving school for two years, she returned, earning all A’s and B’s in spite of the limited time she had to study. Nou, who was unable to be present for the award luncheon because she was on a mission in Thailand, plans to attend DMACC to earn an association nursing degree, followed by Iowa State University to complete her nursing degree, then medical school to become a pediatrician.   

The gumption it's taken for all of these students to succeed in spite of the challenges and obstacles they've faced is impressive. 

By Rob Tucker

It's hard to believe the school year is almost over, and it's already time to award the Rotary Club of Des Moines college scholarships. Every year my club presents an $8000 scholarship to one student chosen from each of the Des Moines high schools: East, Hoover, Lincoln, North, Roosevelt and Scavo. I always serve on the East High team.

This year my usual East interview partners, Kelly Sargent and Mark Lyons, were joined by long-time Rotarian Jim Vickery. We were in agreement that choosing the recipient was at once rewarding and difficult because all four finalists were so deserving. 

Our job, however, is to select one recipient. Our 2019 East High scholarship winner is Jasmine Johnson. 

Jasmine is one of seven children. Her father was a drug addict who physically abused his wife and children, forcing Jasmine's mother to do the best she could as a single, working mom.

Despite the adversity, Jasmine’s mother taught all of her children how to read before they were three years old. Jasmine told us that by the time she was four, she understood that education would be her salvation. Throughout her career as a student, she held on to her belief that she could be successful in life if she worked hard . . . and she has.

In addition to working 24 to 30 hours a week at HyVee and contributing more than 200 volunteer hours to service projects, Jasmine managed to maintain a 3.4 grade point average and make the East High honor roll this past semester. She was also the recipient of the Most Creative award, a Poetry Club award, and she was chosen for the National Youth Leadership Council.

Jasmine has been accepted at Iowa State University where she plans to study to become a social worker. She told us that she wants to be able to help young people who find themselves facing the sort of challenges early in life that she has had to overcome.

By Erin Tucker

March is Women’s History Month. To celebrate it, I'm sharing 20 memorable, motivating quotes by women, for women.  

A woman is like a teabag – only in hot water do you realize how strong she is. — Eleanor Roosevelt, diplomat, activist and 32nd First Lady of the United States

The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any. — Alice Walker, Pulitzer Prize-winning, novelist, short story writer and poet

A man told me that for a woman, I was very opinionated. I said, ‘For a man, you’re very ignorant.’ — Anne Hathaway, award-winning actress and singer
 
Women belong in all places where decisions are being made. It shouldn’t be that women are the exception. – Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Associate Justice of the Supreme Court of the United States 

Never limit yourself because of others’ limited imagination; never limit others because of your own limited imagination. — Mae Carol Jemison, engineer, physician and NASA astronaut

Knowing what must be done does away with fear. — Rosa Parks, American civil rights activist known for her pivotal role in the Montgomery bus boycott 

I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; And because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do the something that I can do. — Helen Keller, author, political activist, lecturer and the first deaf-blind person to earn a Bachelor of Arts degree

Whenever one person stands up and says, ‘Wait a minute, this is wrong,’ it helps other people do the same. — Gloria Steinem, journalist, author and social activist

Challenges are gifts that force us to search for a new center of gravity. Don’t fight them. Just find a new way to stand. ― Oprah Winfrey, media executive, actress, talk show host, television producer and philanthropist

It took me quite a long time to develop a voice, and now that I have it, I am not going to be silent. — Madeleine Albright, American politician and first female United States Secretary of State  

Instead of letting your hardships and failures discourage or exhaust you, let them inspire you. Let them make you even hungrier to succeed. —  Michelle Obama, 44th First Lady of the United States

When women and girls are empowered to participate fully in society, everyone benefits. — Melinda Gates, philanthropist, former general manager at Microsoft and co-founder of the world's largest private charitable organization

Be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else. — Judy Garland, actress, singer, dancer and international star

The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. — Amelia Earhart, American aviation pioneer, author and first female aviator to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean

When the whole world is silent, even one voice becomes powerful. — Malala Yousafzai, Pakistani activist for educating women and the youngest-ever Nobel Prize laureate

Whatever the problem, be part of the solution. Don’t just sit around raising questions and pointing out obstacles. — Tina Fey, actress, comedian, writer, producer and playwright.

Cautious, careful people, always casting about to preserve their reputations can never effect a reform. — Susan B. Anthony, American social reformer and women's rights activist who played a pivotal role in the women's suffrage movement

Never doubt that you are valuable and powerful and deserving of every chance in the world to pursue your dreams. — Hillary Clinton, 42nd First Lady of the United States, Secretary of State and presidential candidate

I am not afraid of storms for I am leaning how to sail my ship. — Louisa May Alcott, American novelist and poet

Jump forward, mean well, commit, and just see what happens. — Angelina Joie, award-winning acres, filmmaker and humanitarian

I’m not sure how many attorneys even here in Iowa know that the oldest and largest association of predominantly African-American lawyers, judges, educators and law students was founded in Des Moines. 

In 1925, in response to being rejected for membership by the American Bar Association, twelve black attorneys — eleven men and one woman with a mutual interest in and dedication to justice and civil rights for all people — formed the National Bar Association. The NBA now has 84 chapters throughout the United States and affiliations in Canada, the United Kingdom, Africa, Morocco and the Caribbean.

Founders of the National Bar Association

• George S. Adams          
• Jesse N. Baker
• S. Joe Brown
• Charles H. Calloway
• Wendell E. Green
• William H. Haynes
• Charles P. Howard, Sr.
• L. Amasa Knox
• James B. Morris
• Gertrude E. Rush
• C. Francis Stradford
• George H. Woodson

In recognition of the pioneering role the twelve founders played in the quest for racial equality, the Greater Des Moines Public Art Foundation commissioned artist Kerry James Marshall to create a monument in their honor. In an interview with Artnet News, Mr. Marshall said that he was originally asked to design the memorial in 2006, but due to difficulty obtaining funding and site approval, the project was repeatedly put on hold . . . long enough that he assumed it was dead. However, both the NBA and the Foundation continued to fight for the project, and the 30-foot, 25-ton sculpture was finally completed and dedicated in July of 2018, 12 years after it had proposed — coincidentally, one year for each of the founders. A Monumental Journey can be viewed at Hansen Triangle Park, Grand and Second Avenues along the Principal Riverwalk in Des Moines.

​Yikes, it’s cold here in Iowa! CNN meteorologist Dave Hennen said it's the coldest weather the Midwest has experienced in a generation, and . . . wait for it . . . in his words, "the worst is yet to come." 

The extreme cold sweeping down from Canada is expected to drop temperatures to a record 20 to 40 below — colder than some places in Antarctica; Priestley Glacier is expecting a comparatively balmy high of 6 degrees and low of seven 7 degrees below zero!

If you're stranded in your car in snowy conditions, having the right supplies can mean the difference between life and death. Here's a list items you need to be prepared:

Gloves
Heavy wool socks
Commercial handwarmers 
Blankets (for wrapping up in and for insulating your car windows)
Snow boots
Shovel (to dig your car out if you can and, if you can't, to clear your exhaust pipe so you can run the car's engine)
Kitty litter (to use as traction for your tires)

Rescue teams also recommend keeping your car's gas tank at least half full in winter so that in case you're stranded, you'll have enough gas to turn the car's engine on and off to keep warm.

It's also important to call 911 right away so you don't risk having your phone die before you're able to let someone know where you are. Emergency services can ping your phone to find your exact location in case you need to be rescued. 

Stay warm, stay safe. We're here if you need us.

Although surprisingly, July 4th ranks as the day with the highest number of traffic deaths, New Year’s Eve from 6 PM to 6 AM the next morning holds its own as a potentially lethal time to be driving. The average number of traffic accident deaths climbs from 117 per day to 142 on New Year’s. 

It’s also the day with both the most pedestrian deaths, and 71% more accidents where alcohol or drugs are a contributing factor.

Rule of thumb: if you feel even the slightest need to evaluate whether you're okay to drive, or if anyone else asks you whether you are — you aren't.

Even if you're completely unimpaired, there are guaranteed to be other drivers on the road with you who drank too much, used drugs or are texting their friends. 

You get the drift. It's a 12-hour time period to be extra cautious.

We're always here for you, but we'd much rather that you stay safe and start 2019 happy and healthy.

By Erin Tucker

​Sunday, November 11 was Veteran's Day. Now a federal holiday, it originated in 1919 as Armistice Day on the one-year anniversary commemorating the agreement that was signed at 11:00 AM on November 11, 1918 ending World War I.  

Also known in the years following as the First World War, the Great War, and the War to End All Wars, by any name, unfortunately it did not end all war. 

Congress passed a resolution in 1926 for an annual observance on November 11, and in 1938 it became a national holiday. If the 11th falls on a Sunday, as it did this year, the following Monday is designated as the federal holiday; if it falls on a Saturday, then either the previous Friday or the following Monday is the observed holiday. The name was changed from Armistice Day to Veterans Day in 1954 to honor all men and women who have served in the United State armed forces. November 11 of this year was particularly significant, marking the 100th anniversary of the end of World War I which began July 28, 1914 and ended November 11 1918.

At Tucker Law we have a special place in our hearts for veterans. Makes sense, since I live with one! My partner in life and Avery's daddy, Greg, served six years active duty in the Navy. He spent most of it on a small frigate with a proud history called the USS Samuel B. Roberts. He was deployed three times to the Mediterranean Sea to assist with anti-terrorism efforts and participated in the decommissioning of the Roberts in 2015. Greg left active duty as a First Class Petty Officer and is currently in the Reserves, stationed in Des Moines.

Tucker Law has assisted no small number of veterans over the years. If you need help, don't hesitate to call us. We're here.